E Pluribus Unum. Out of many, one. More than any other citizen, the soldier makes our country’s motto true. My husband retired from the US Army after 30 years. Life in the Army, like any life, has ups and downs to it - the main difference being this: when your spouse is on a business trip they are often deployed to hostile ground and risking their very lives. As the spouse of a soldier, you have to find a way to wrap your mind and your heart around that, you have to find a